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Introverts and Business Partners: Can This Marriage Work? 
Linda Goin
  
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Over the past few weeks I've focused on introverts who might try their hand at entrepreneurship, and the information that I've gathered has interested a few of my extroverted entrepreneurial friends as well. So far, I haven't found the right key to unlock the door for someone who abhors mingling with others, though. For instance, an agent would most likely demand public appearances from their client (you) as a public relations tool. And, a salesperson might expect an already established clientele for the introvert's products or services; therefore, the shy or hermit-like individual needs to get out and sell, sell, sell before he or she hires a salesperson. But, would a business partner work for the introverted entrepreneur?

Unfortunately, the efforts required to find a business partner may prove as difficult as the effort to find an agent or salesperson who may work with you, especially if you're the introvert. Most business people who are in the market for business partners seem to prefer partnering with people who maintain a certain attitude and demeanor about business. Think "outgoing personality," and/or a person with high ratings in the credibility and ethics department. While you feel you might have those qualities, a person must be seen in public so that others can vouch for these characteristics.

Additionally, each state carries specific laws on partnership formation and dissolution, as well as laws focused on each partner's legal responsibilites. These legalities prove that partnerships are binding, and that a possibility exists that these same partnerships might dissolve. In other words, finding a partner is similar to dating (I wonder how introverts tolerate that activity?), and a partnership is similar to a marriage (I wonder how introverts weigh in on this venture as well?). But, if your desire to chase a dream provides enough juice to put you on the streets to look for a partner, then here are some suggestions:

  1. I can't tell you how or when you might meet someone who fits your ideal of a business partner any more than I can tell you when you'll meet your dream date. However, you can meet someone in any location, including places where you volunteer your services or places where you conduct your hobbies. The deal here is to make sure that everyone you meet knows that you have a business you'd like to share with another person. Without giving away the barn with the horse, you can detail some ideas about your business and what you need to help it grow. Someone somewhere may know another person who is in the market for such an opportunity. Think of this process as opening yourself up to a blind date.

  2. When you do meet someone who is interested in your business and who wants to share in its growth, court that person for a while. In other words, it wouldn't hurt to conduct a project or two together before you even talk about partnership. The projects take you both beyond the "what if" stage to illuminate how you work together in real life. In the dating world, this is like taking care of your sister's kid with your boyfriend. He may talk like he likes kids, but you never know until you see him in action with a live model.

  3. When you do decide to tie the business partnership knot with this person, act like a business person. Talk to an attorney. Get the proper papers filed for your state and/or region. You can even draw up a statement of expectations, much like your marriage vows only less mushy. And, like a marriage, you shouldn't forget the prenuptial agreement. After all, partnerships may end, and it's best to have an amicable parting of the ways.

A partnership has its plusses, because you can share work, one person may compensate for the weaknesses in the other, and it helps to have another person of "like mind" to bounce ideas around with. Plus, partnerships are relatively easy to establish legally, and they require about the same amount of recordkeeping as a sole proprietorship. There are other tax advantages as well, items that I'll talk about in another article. However, partnerships do have a down side (Newton's law of equal and opposite reactions comes to mind here?).

For instance, you can be held liable for your partner's mistakes. If your partner cannot meet his financial obligations, you may have to pay out-of-pocket to remedy certain situations. Like my father used to say, "You're known by the company you keep" ("Birds of a feather flock together," was his exact quote), this holds true for your partnership. Since you most likely cannot monitor your partner's minute-by-minute transactions, some unpleasant surprises may occur. So, be flexible, and be prepared. Finally, when one person dissolves a partnership, the partnership usually ends. This means that a business may end. Yes, much like a marriage. His friends (clients), your friends (clients), may all fly hither and thither when it all goes kaput.

Don't let me lead you down a totally negative path, as some partnerships have been known to endure for decades, and their successes aren't always about compromise or submission of one person to another. In fact, much of a good partnership's success relies on being so focused on the business at hand that problems seem insignificant. But, it helps if your partner holds similar values, interests, and goals as you. For instance, Penn and Teller were too busy eating fire and palming cards to quibble when they began their partnership. "We show up on time, do our homework, and are supportive of each other," states Penn Jillette. "But it helps that we are both libertarian, antidrug, teetotaling, skeptical, pro-science atheists."

There you go. That quote came from an article in Inc.com's online list of "how-to-find-a-business-partner" articles, short reads that will validate and add to the information that I've offered for you here. The only thing that worries me now is that if you look for someone who holds your same values, interests, etc., you may end up partnering with another introvert.

Never fear - I think I can solve your entrepreneurial problem next week. I think I've figured out a way for you to go into business for yourself and work with a number of helpers - like salespeople, agents, and even a business partner - and you may not need to leave home. Ever. No, I'm not talking about jail cells and license plates ?

Until Then,
Linda Goin


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